Thanks for understanding me, but i used that tool...
When i went to mi nice and warm bed i tought of something, should it have something to do with my "menu.ml" file. I did put new "png" files and a new "menu.ml" file on my phone, and then i had new icons, but that isn't what i want. I deletet the png's en menu.ml and put my original menu.ml file back in the menu folder so now i have the original menu with the theme i wantet (a nice red one) but no flas menu, only the original menu with red background.
<?xml version="1.0" ?>
- <!-- Created with Sony Ericsson Themes Creator
-->
- <Sony_Ericsson_theme version="4.1">
<Author_firstname value="Human Interface Design" />
<Author_lastname value="Creative Design Center" />
<Author_organisation value="Sony Ericsson" />
<Background Color="0x000000" />
<Background_image Source="background.png" />
<Calendar_weekview_markings Color="0xff3c00" />
<Desktop_style Type="File" Source="citybeatwhite.swf" />
<Desktop Color="0x170d00" />
<Desktop_higlight_image Source="desktophighlight.png" />
<Desktop_image Source="background.png" />
<Desktop_title_text Color="0xf3f3f3" />
<Highlight_text Color="0xff3c00" />
<Highlight Color="0x000000" />
<Highlight_image Source="highlight.png" />
<Highlight_small_image Source="highlight+-AF8-sml.png" />
<Home_screen_text Color="0xd4d4d4" />
<Home_screen Color="0x000000" />
<Home_screen_frame Color="0x0f0f0f" />
<Home_screen_highlight_text Color="0xff3c00" />
<Home_screen_highlight Color="0xffd98c" />
<Home_screen_highlight_image Source="homesc+-AF8-highlight.png" />
<Home_screen_highlight_small_image Source="homesc+-AF8-highlight+-AF8-sml.png" />
<Home_screen_image Source="homesc+-AF8-image+-AF8-04.png" />
<Home_screen_scrollbar_background Color="0x707070" />
<Home_screen_scrollbar_slider Color="0xff3c00" />
<Home_screen_tab_text Color="0xe8e8e8" />
<Home_screen_tab Color="0x000000" />
<Home_screen_tab_image Source="homesc+-AF8-tab+-AF8-02.png" />
<Home_screen_tab_unselected Color="0x000000" />
<Home_screen_tab_selected Color="0xe0e0e0" />
<Home_screen_tab_selected_image Source="homesc+-AF8-tab+-AF8-selected.png" />
<Home_screen_tab_unselected_image Source="Homesc+-AF8-tab+-AF8-unselected.png" />
<Input_text Color="0xe0e0e0" />
<Input_image Source="input2.png" />
<Input_marked_text Color="0xff3c00" />
<Input_popup_text Color="0x9a909c" />
<Input_popup Color="0x0c0c0a" />
<Input_popup_frame Color="0xffffff" />
<Input_popup_highlight_text Color="0x000000" />
<Input_popup_highlight Color="0xf3f3f3" />
<Input_popup_scrollbar_background Color="0xa0a0a0" />
<Input_popup_scrollbar_slider Color="0xff3c00" />
<Input_small_image Source="input+-AF8-sml.png" />
<Morelist_text Color="0xd4d4d4" />
<Morelist Color="0x221100" />
<Morelist_frame Color="0xffffff" />
<Morelist_highlight_text Color="0xff3c00" />
<Morelist_highlight Color="0xf3f3f3" />
<Morelist_highlight_image Source="more+-AF8-highlight.png" />
<Morelist_image Source="more+-AF8-image+-AF8-02.png" />
<Morelist_scrollbar_background Color="0x888a42" />
<Morelist_scrollbar_slider Color="0xff3c00" />
<Popup Color="0x000000" />
<Popup_dim Color="0x000000" />
<Popup_frame Color="0x000000" />
<Popup_highlight_text Color="0xff3c00" />
<Popup_highlight Color="0xffffff" />
<Popup_highlight_image Source="popup+-AF8-highlight.png" />
<Popup_image Source="popup+-AF8-03.png" />
<Popup_scrollbar_background Color="0x888a42" />
<Popup_scrollbar_slider Color="0xff3c00" />
<Popup_text Color="0xd4d4d4" />
<Popup_title_image Source="popup+-AF8-title+-AF8-05.png" />
<Popup_title_text Color="0xe8e8e8" />
<Progress_bar_outline Color="0xe2e2e2" />
<Progress_bar_fill Color="0x666666" />
<Progress_bar_slider Color="0xff3c00" />
<Scrollbar_background Color="0x6f6c57" />
<Scrollbar_slider Color="0xff3c00" />
<Softkey_left Color="0xc0e29b" />
<Softkey_right Color="0xc0e29b" />
<Softkey_left_pressed_image Source="softky+-AF8-left+-AF8-presd.png" />
<Softkey_right_pressed_image Source="softky+-AF8-right+-AF8-presd.png" />
<Softkey_text_left Color="0x999999" />
<Softkey_text_right Color="0x999999" />
<Softkey_text_left_pressed Color="0xff3c00" />
<Softkey_text_right_pressed Color="0xff3c00" />
<Standby_image Source="citybeat.gif" />
<Standby_operatorname_text Color="0xc0c0c0" />
<Standby_operatorname_outline Color="0x000000" />
<Standby_softkey_image Source="standby+-AF8-softkey.png" />
<Standby_statusbar_image Source="standby+-AF8-statusbar.png" />
<Standby_time Color="0xff3c00" />
<Standby_time_outline Color="0x000000" />
<Tab_text Color="0xe8e8e8" />
<Tab Color="0x000000" />
<Tab_image Source="tab.png" />
<Tab_unselected Color="0x000000" />
<Tab_selected Color="0xf3f3f3" />
<Tab_selected_image Source="tab+-AF8-selected.png" />
<Tab_unselected_image Source="tab+-AF8-unselected.png" />
<Text Color="0xd4d4d4" />
<Title_image Source="title.png" />
<Title_small_image Source="title+-AF8-sml.png" />
<Title_text Color="0xe8e8e8" />
<Volume_staples Color="0xff3c00" />
<Wapbrowser_underline Color="0x00009e" />
<Wapbrowser_tableborder Color="0x00009e" />
</Sony_Ericsson_theme>
This is my "theme.xml" file and as you see my swf is called "citybeatwhite.swf" and is mensioned in the xml. I tried to put that line on the 4th line of the xml (like some say) (doesn't work) and i like now it stands before "<Desktop Colo....." (like some others say)
"citybeatwhite.swf" is in the folder "tpa/present/system/desktop/flash"
I'm dutch so not so easy to find the write tuto for doing this, when it works i"m thinking of writing some dutch tuto to make it a bit easyaer, beacause i didn't found ANY tuto in dutch in the whole world f*** wide web
Thanks