hi im new to fireware mods i wanna no how to mod my k800i and use stuff like kd player

first n foremost
go to the tutorial section n read the tutorials there
those tutorials exist for a reason
for those new to moddin to understand more bout moddin
there are not there just for the fun of it

not helpfull

ok well then
do u expect me to write a tutorial on how to flash ur phone n mod ur phone?
when a tutorial on it exists
i take it u dunno wat is xs++ n wat it does
so then i would need to teach u where to dl it
how to use it

really
u really expect me to write a way long tutorial for u when it exists?
once u know how to use xs++
and understand wat is wat
then u can check out the firmware forums
ur answers lies there

Ok, so you think, it's not helpfull that she told you that you should get yourself a little bit more informed before asking questions ?

Then i'll be a little more helpfull but not much more helpfull (as i won't give you a tutorial, you'll have to learn the basics yourself )

Anyways, first of all, before even thinking of flashing/modding your phone, you need to know what's what and what every program do, cause if you screw up and brick your phone (btw, "to brick" a phone means that the phone is not usable anymore and it's just a very expensive paperweight) we won't be held responsible for that (after all, you where the one playing with the phone, where you not ? )

So, first and foremost go trought List of Firmware/Flashing guides and reference material, The newbie starter pack and read the tutorials. The list has been created with a very good reason, and that is that newbies like you (and even me cause i'm in no way an expert) can find most of the info needed to get you started.
After you've started to understand what modding/flashing is all about and how it's done then you can go trough the other forum posts and search for specific information that you want. After that (and only after that) if you really can't find the information you're looking for then you can ask away in the forums.

Aliciatit is a nice girl and usually helps people, but she's becoming upset, like most of other users that new users don't go trough the forum reading a little before asking questions.

Look for example at your post : in the title you ask how to put firmware in a phone, but in the actual post you ask how to modify the phone and how to install and use java software, well, it clearly shows that you're not very familiar with the concepts (KD Player is a java program, you can install it like any other java program/game, you don't need to have even the slightest clue about firmwares in order to do that).

Sorry if i was a bit harsh, but as i said, "we" (the "older" guys/girls in the forum) are getting a little fed up with people asking without searching first. I know there's a little bit too much info for a beginner, but still you should get yourself informed before doing any modification to the phone (after all, you probably paid quite a lot of money for the phone and don't want to loose it just because you didn't understand correctly what a program does).

Anyways, i hope that my post, however harsh was still usefull.

P.S.
In most forums there's a "rule of thumb" that most users should respect, but most of them end up not doing so, and that is : "use the search function before asking question, and if the question hasn't been asked before then ask". I know this "rule" is not written down anywhere, but those that used forums for some time know that this rule is one of the most important ones.

thanks for the nice words verszipo
just so u know
ur guide on flashin a phone helps me a lot
i flash my phone accordin to ur guide
but of cuz i use china main n apac fs

mostly the questions asked by these newcomers are
can i flash my phone to k850 n so on
not tat all newcomers are like that
some of them
are quite the expert
they already helped ppl on their very first post

Thanx, i'm glad i was of help for somebody

Anyways, i like helping people very much, it's the way i am, and i specially like helping people when they at least have a clue about what they want to do, but as i said before i'm getting quite annoyed when a user comes and asks about something without even knowing what he's talking about. The worst part is that if he/she does a flash or modification and screws something up then he/she will blaim me or whoever wrote the tutorial/post, but they should think a little before "jumping in".

I do have to admit that maybe the forums are not very well formated, at least not from the point of view of a new user, and also maybe there should be more tutorials, but still, that's not an excuse for new users not to go to the "Newbie Forum" and read what has already been posted/talked about before asking question.

I know that i'm a bit harsh nowadays, but i've had a "hard time" lately and i don't have as much patience as before

same here
mayb mine is cuz of exams